Language of Love: Vocab to Help You Find 'The One'
Love: it's all in the eyes.
At least, that's what some people say. But language is a big part of it too.
The language of dating is always changing. Some words — like "matching" and "swiping" on dating apps — are used in a number of different languages, but others are different around the world.
Whether you meet someone you like online or in person, you'll often start with "flirting."
That's talking or behaving in a way that's playful and shows someone you like them — or "fancy" them, if you're in the UK.
This might mean you're ready to "ask out" that person, meaning you'd like to take them on a date. You might later "fall for" them — then you'll know it's really serious and you've fallen in love.
Of course, it doesn't always happen like that. You'll have to look out for "red flags." These are signs that a person isn't right for you. They could be small things like not saying "thank you," or much bigger problems.
And even if you really like someone, be careful not to do any "love bombing."
It might sound nice, but it's usually thought to be manipulative. It means sending lots and lots of over-the-top loving messages, complimenting the other person or giving them gifts to win their affection or trust.
But if you're lucky, you may have found "the one." That's the idea that there is one person meant just for you.
